Sorry, Not Sorry...

I am frequently told, “I’m sorry” in both my personal life and in the workplace. I know what others are attempting to convey when they use the word…

Believing when said it will denote empathy or respect, instead will make one appear less than genuine, incapable of assuming real responsibility and unconfident in their abilities.

“Sorry” is a co-dependent people pleasing word. Honestly, we are never going to be good enough to some and too good for others. Why let it dictate your place in this world?

So much of our time is wasted worrying about what others think. In doing so we sacrifice control of our position and our true selves along with our happiness.

Don’t get it twisted, I spent years saying I was “sorry” too. Then I stopped. Was I going to be a doormat or start opening doors? I set boundaries and I am no longer sorry. I do not explain myself or apologize for:

Asking for What is Wanted and Needed

Ending an Unhealthy Personal or Professional Relationship

Taking “Me” Time

Not Giving into Other’s Need of Instant Gratification

The biggest one - Saying “No”

So, yeah...sorry not sorry.

We all deserve all this life has to offer. It is not selfish to put yourself first. Now go out and start your week being unapologetically you.